Kassie's Column: Salute - See a Vet, Thank a Vet

Members of the American Legion Post 8, Am Vets Post 760, County Veterans Council and Davidson County Honor Guard joined members of Banks-Miller Post 255 in May for a flag burning ceremony. It was the first time the organization has hosted one in its 70 year history. {Kassaundra Shanette Lockhart/Davidson Local}

See a vet. Thank a vet.

It’s a motto I’ve lived by for years.

I recall starting this personal trend when I was working in retail management at Bath & Body Works. Visitors to the store would include men searching for gifts for their wives, girlfriends and friends. Often, they would be wearing paraphernalia with logos from one of the armed forces. If it didn’t say veteran, I wouldn’t hesitate to ask if they served. Being the granddaughter of a Montford Point Marine, veterans hold a special place in my heart.

The first thing I quickly noticed when I started my rounds of thanks was the spark in most veterans’ eyes when they heard those five words, “Thank you for your service.” I’ve always received a thank you and you’re welcome. Countless times I received an “It was an honor” from them.

Over the years, my respect and reverence for vets has increased. As I’ve learned more about the trailblazing Montford Point Marines, I’ve learned more about our military overall. I’m familiar with the rigor, sacrifice, uncertainty, isolation, ailments and trauma many have endured to ensure our “freedoms.” I’ve heard some stories that have driven me to tears and some that have left me shaking my head. But what has always stood out for me is the fact that even through the difficulties the pride these men and women have in serving this country always rises to the surface.

A few weeks ago, I was traveling back to North Carolina from vacation. I was in Baltimore/Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport at my boarding gate with a friend when I noticed a scene I’d never witnessed before. A t-shirt caught my eye which had written on the back “New England Honor Flight.” Immediately, I let out a small gasp. For those who aren’t familiar with the term, honor flights transport veterans to Washington, DC to visit the memorials erected in their honor. Typically, the vets are seniors since the majority served in World War II, the Korean War, the Cold War and the Vietnam War. The honorees spend the day in the Nation’s Capital where they’re served lunch then return home to a hero’s welcome.

It wasn’t long before people noticed something special was happening. Phones started snapping photos and recording video. As a large crowd began forming, we were prompted to join in on the celebration. After the flight’s director played each branch of service’s hymn and we sang happy birthday to the October and November born vets, it was time to do what I consider an privilege.

See a vet. Thank a vet.

I made my way over to the approximately 20 veterans including a woman. As the tears begin to fall, I thanked them one by one. A young gentleman who was turning 91 years old this month smiled and asked if he could give me a hug. Of course, I said quite enthusiastically. I’m not sure who needed it more – him and me. As I returned to the gate where my friend was waiting, I fell into her arms. It was an overwhelming experience.

I enjoy seeing veterans exalted while they’re alive to receive the praise. Seeing veterans always makes me think about my granddaddy and how much I wish I had more than 26 years with him. Seeing veterans also prompts me to examine how much more we could be doing for those who have protected us.

I know I can’t do it all. Nor can we. However, one thing I will do is continue to honor our country’s heroes any chance I can. Our county is rich with men and women who’ve given so much and often receive so little in return. While most of us may not be able to affect change from a governmental standpoint, I can testify that an acknowledgment of what they’ve forfeited is sometimes the most gratifying acknowledgment they need.

So, from this point forward, no more hesitation, ya hear?

See a vet. Thank a vet.

They deserve it.

And so much more.